BoldBelief Devotional

Words Chosen Wisely

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#BoldBeliefDevotional by Paul Natekin

Key Bible Verse:

“Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.” — James 1:19-20 (NIV)

Have you ever said something in the heat of anger that you later wished you could take back? It’s a common experience, one that can lead to regret and strained relationships. Today, let’s explore why God encourages us to be slow to speak and slow to anger.

Apologetic Insight:

(from Greek ἀπολογία, ‘speaking in defense’) Defending and explaining faith with reason and evidence.

Dr. Gary Chapman, in his book “Anger: Handling a Powerful Emotion in a Healthy Way,” emphasizes that anger, when expressed recklessly, can damage relationships and hinder our spiritual growth. This aligns with James’ teaching that our human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.

C.S. Lewis, in his work “Mere Christianity,” also addresses this issue, stating, “Anger is a natural human emotion, but the way we express it is crucial. It can either serve as a tool for self-reflection or become a weapon that wounds.” He reminds us that Christ’s example was one of patience and forgiveness, even in the face of injustice and betrayal.

Encouragement & Application:

God’s call to be slow to speak and slow to anger isn’t just about avoiding conflict; it’s about cultivating patience and humility in our lives. When we’re angry, we can take a moment to breathe, pray, and seek God’s wisdom. Here are some practical steps:

Pause: Take a moment to collect your thoughts before responding.
Pray: Ask God for patience and guidance in your speech.
Reflect: Consider if your words will build up or tear down.

Remember, your words can either reflect God’s love or misrepresent His character. Let’s strive to speak with grace and truth, even in challenging moments.

Reflection Questions:

When have you experienced regret from speaking out of anger?
How can you incorporate James 1:19-20 into your daily interactions?

Prayer:

Father, thank You for Your wisdom in teaching us to be quick to listen and slow to speak. Help us to manage our anger in a way that honors You. Guide our words so that they may reflect Your love and righteousness. Grant us the patience to pause, the wisdom to reflect, and the grace to respond in love. In Jesus’ name, Amen.